Happy Valentine’s Day Friend! I know today can be hard for some + I want to tell you that no matter if you have a special someone or not, you are loved!
Personally I think the meaning behind Valentine’s Day should be celebrated everyday. We should be showing our people how much we love + appreciate them everyday, not just on a day that society deemed the day of love ya know? And since when did flowers, jewelry + a box of chocolates equal showing love?
A hand written note expressing to me how much I’m loved- yes. Putting everything aside to spend quality time with me-yes. Surprising me with something that reminded you of me to let me know you thought about me when we were apart- yes. Texting me just to say hi or that they are thinking of me -yes. Ya get where I’m going with this ha! Whether from my Marine or a friend thats how I want to be shown love.
I feel like Valentine’s Day also separates the people in relationships + the people who are single. I remember thats how I felt all the Valentine’s Day I was single. To me it felt like I was missing out, that I wasn’t included in the “club” of people in relationships who had valentines ya know? I had forgotten that no matter what I am loved because God loves me, just the way I am. The same goes for you as well, single or in a relationship.
I know it’s hard but try to remember that one, God loves you just the way you are. No matter what. Two, a relationship would change that. Three, you are loved + should be shown how much every day. Four a romantic relationship isn’t the only form of love if that makes sense + if you do get into one, it won’t make you any more lovable than you were previously. But, I also totally understand that it’s super hard to feel that when you want a romantic relationship. It was hard for me too.
No matter what, I hope you know how loved you are + that today brings you joy.
So tell me. What are your plans for Valentine’s Day?! Tell me in the comments below! I’d love to know! Oh + while I have you here lol don’t forget to subscribe to the blog via your email so you never miss a post! And then! Come say Hi! on Pinterest + Instagram: @jennniferlynn11! I’d love to hear from you + connect!
Thank you so much for being here + reading ✨ Happy Valentine’s Day! ✨ !! It means so much to me! 🤍✨
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